The Movie Vault: A Classic Chick Flick

Ah, Anabel Sims, a classic chick flick heroine. A character to be admired by women and feared by men. Admired for her go get 'em (or should I say "go get him") spirit and unwavering persistence. And feared for her "go get him" spirit and unwavering persistence. Yes, that's right, when watching Every Girl Should Be Married, the 1948 film starring Cary Grant as Dr. Madison Brown and Betsy Drake as Anabel Sims, most women can't help but giggle in delight at the same story elements that make men shudder. But, it wouldn't be a good chick flick if men really enjoyed the film, now would it?

By today's standards, the most fitting description for Anabel would probably be "stalker." But, not by 1940's standards. No, instead she's merely a very determined woman set on catching the man she knows she's meant to marry. At one point in the film she states, "Do you know something about being a girl? You can just never give up. You have take every single little defeat and twist it around and around until it turns into a great big victory."

But, for those of you who don't buy that and prefer to think of her as a stalker, then at least think of her as a harmless one. After all, it's not like she's sitting outside Dr. Brown's window, watching his every move. Although ... she does manage to find out his shirt size, where he eats dinner each night of the week, what his favorite menu items are there, and just about everything else about him. How's she obtain this information? Why it's simple, through his tailor, the head waiter at his favorite restaurant, his barber, his secretary, and just about everyone else he comes in contact with on a regular basis. Her explanation, "Well I haven't done a single thing that isn't legitimate for a girl." And, she is quite the resourceful woman. Now, who can't admire that?

This movie does contradict the belief that a man should be the one to pursue while the woman the one to respond. Anabel is certainly the pursuer in this film, at one point explaining her actions with, "Well, I know its dreadful. But this is the kind of thing that men force us to do." Dr. Brown, on the other hand, goes from being initially passive and disinterested to down right avoidant. Yet, for every woman that's ever encountered a passive man, this film is welcome therapy.

One of my favorite scenes in the movie is Anabel's visit to Dr. Brown's office. She has already spotted him in her favorite coffee shop and the chase is on. Not knowing that he's a pediatrician, she makes an appointment for herself. Dr. Brown thinks she has a little one at home. Needless to say, the conversation that follows is hilarious line after line of misunderstanding.

Variety magazine's November 10, 1948 issue called the film "one of those rare comic delicacies that are always in good season at the box office," while the New York Times' December 24, 1948 edition described Betsy Drake as "display[ing] a refreshingly natural comic spirit in this fanciful girl-gets-boy lark" while also showing "a surprisingly perseverance in pursuing the dictates of the plot." Every Girl Should Be Married is one of those films I love watching again and again. So much so, that it's set on "keep until I delete" on my TiVo, ready to be enjoyed at a moment's notice.